It just happens……

I just watched a movie “The Fault in our stars”………  

AAAHHHHHaaaaaahhh….. And what a movie I must say. Love, pain, understating and what not this movie had.  It filled my heart with a strange feeling not at all easy to understand. On one side I am feeling the pain of sad ending of the story and on other side the bond they share with each other.

Is this is love. It’s a reel life love; does this type of love exist in this real and selfish world???????????

The story is perfect and for my blog I have chosen the title “It just happens” because I felt how much you resist yourself not to fall in love, no matter how much  determined you are but whenever it gonna  happen it simply happens.

I think a love story is one which never complete……..

It always ends with no end yeah I’m talking about a tragic ending like this movie has and also the golden love story favorite of all “TITANIC”

Very beautiful lines-------

                                    “ Aasma ko Zameen 

                                     yeh zaruri nahi jaa mile,

                                     ishq sacha wahi

                                     jisko milti nahi

                                    manzille manzille”……

Beautiful lines from Humari adhuri kahani Title track…………

Why I am saying this because love is all about making other happy. And I feel it just happen, you do not do it intentionally. It just happens and you even don’t know when it happens.

May be it happens with you guys also. All of sudden you become so caring for someone, waiting for their texts, long night calls, and yeah yeah extra possessiveness.

I don’t how it feels but this movie really touched me and I wish I could fall in love as well…hahahahah…..

Movies are not real but they are the taken from real lives. Life of people like you and me that’s the reason they touched us so much as we are able to connect ourselves with them. 

And yes one more thing I pick out from movie is ‘love is for every one’ in different shape, size, color…. 

No matter how you look, how many problems you have with yourself but there is someone out there waiting for you. He/she looks at you differently and thinks about you differently that non other person in the world can look and think about you other than them.

It’s all about connection. The bond between two people just built with no reason it just happen. And you can’t do anything about it inspite of all your efforts guys.

“Pain Demands to be felt”

Sometimes I feel Love and Pain are synonyms. Seriously this is very beautifully depicted in the movie how a person hide his pains and sorrows just to make someone special happy. Pain of separation, pain of getting apart and all of sudden you came to know that person you loved most, you dream with, do not exists any more in your life.

That pain in your chest as if even you can’t live your life any more. It feels like you are also dying with them. But reality is you have to live without that person with whom you want to spend your full life.

It hurts but you never regrets why it happens to you. This is the most beautiful phase of one’s life and you cherish these sweet moments for rest of your life. There is a tear rolled down on your cheeks but a smile on lips. This is a real smile. And I don’t think I need to explain why this smile comes on your face.

One person going on your mind while reading my blog is the one whom you love the most……

Just go and tell them how much you love them. You never know whether you get a chance to tell them or not. So don’t waste even a single moment guys.

                                             FAILURE.....
                                     A step towards success    
 

At some moment of life you feel that it’s only you, who mend to face failure, failure, and failure only. Inspite of all your dedication, hard work, zeal and passion you’re not able to achieve what you want. And those back to back failures broke your confidence and make you to feel that you are good for nothing.

Yes, I am feeling the same right now. As I had given 10^th interview of my life on 23^rd of May and I was not selected again. And that moment of rejection made me feel that I am a big failure, I can’t achieve anything in my life. What I have learnt is totally waste. It was all my thought process at that time.

Along with me there were nine other students who were also got rejected. May be same feeling and thoughts were going on in their minds also.They were pondering and cry over same thing again and again. I know it was their burst out. I was feeling the same but I tried to be optimistic and consolidate them. It is just our starting and we are stone need to be polished to become pebble and we are in processing stage bla bla bla…..

I don’t know I was consolidating to them or to myself. Because somewhere deep inside me I was also loosing hope and faith in myself. But still, I use to travel three hours with my friends as road trip with a happy mood.

Finally after three hours of journey and with a stamp of failure I reached home. I was quite upset and my mom was asking about interview and I was like mom rejected once again and she said it’s ok not a big deal. I was like, not a big deal I am rejected for the 10^th  time and she was saying not a big deal. That moment came when my tear rolled down my cheeks when my papa asked how my interview was. I think that was the end of my patience level. Then papa hugged me and recalled me a story of a person who was rejected in interviews for hundred times but at last he achieved so much which I told him few days back.

I know that I have potential but sometimes you need a hug and a faith in you. I am optimistic but some situations and circumstances make you think pessimistic and that time you all need is support of your loving once.

Now I am preparing for next interview and this time the target is not to be got selected rather to give my best shot. I know god has planned something better for me and it’s not the right time. So I am not upset at all because life is roller-coaster ride and stagnant speed won’t give much fun at all.

Failure means you are doing something new and no mistakes means you are doing nothing. And I always want to be in learning mode and failure makes me a better person today than a person  I was yesterday. Also its makes myself to analyze myself thoroughly and I try to overcome my shortcomings day by day. I know one day I will succeed. I will pass, not only with passing marks but with distinction.

Without failure success is not of that much worth as it is achieved after failure. It tastes much sweeter after achieving it with a lot of hard work and struggle. The most important thing is we worth it.